That logic for bi people has always really really bugged me. By that logic, all straight women are doing other men behind their boyfriend's back, and all men are doing other women behind their girlfriend's back, simply because they're attracted to the opposite sex. And I understand that people have a hard time understanding how someone could NOT be with the other gender they're attracted to (since it's very, very different to be in a relationship with a man vs a relationship with a woman), but the concept of boundaries is not that freaking difficult.
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Date: 2010-05-22 05:45 pm (UTC)That logic for bi people has always really really bugged me. By that logic, all straight women are doing other men behind their boyfriend's back, and all men are doing other women behind their girlfriend's back, simply because they're attracted to the opposite sex. And I understand that people have a hard time understanding how someone could NOT be with the other gender they're attracted to (since it's very, very different to be in a relationship with a man vs a relationship with a woman), but the concept of boundaries is not that freaking difficult.